My internet fling has ended folks

[Thrilla-Ali]

So my internet fling is now over.

Let me break it down (i could've posted the convo but its too long and nobody would read it)

Anyways, i sent this girl an email telling her exactly how i felt about her. How i felt she was burning me and how i was su••••ious about her intentions with me because i thought she just might be 'exploring options' with me if you know what i mean.

So i asked her if she read it and the answer was "yes" She said she didn't have any comments about my email to her. That made me think she didn't care, but she goes on saying that she did, and i just made her 'sound bad' apparently. I ask her what she wants out of this, and she said she didn't know. I basically tell her not to waste my time and she goes on to say that its best to cut it off. I basically let her know how good i am to her, and how childish this is becoming because it seemed to me i was chasing after a girl who showed next to no interest in advancing the relationship (she never had a drive to see me). I've been talking to this girl for two months now, and she's telling me how she has a second job and that it's preventing her from seeing me. In my opinion, she atleast could come see me when she's free though, it doesn't matter when, but ATLEAST come an see me. Then she brang up this "friends" nonsense and i still don't accurately understand what she meant [its more complex than you might think]. She's always too busy , but then why did she not inform me from the get-go?

To wrap everything up.. i gave her my conditions.. i told her she could do her thing, and that would be alright with me. All i wanted was for her to come see me here and there, and we could still continue most of the relationship on the phone. Now, she has a son and she has to spend time with him, and i understand that, but all i wanted her to do is atleast come see me in person [so we both can see each other]. She just didn't seem to have any interest in seeing me. When i would mention the subject of us meeting up on the phone, she never showed any desire and furthermore, i wouldn't ask her to come see me all the time in the future either.. just whenever she was comfortable and had time.. she denied my terms and just wanted to continue on the phone as friends (or something more i guess).. it was a teeter tarter effect if you know what i mean.. She said it wasn't working out because of her hectic schedule, but she loves to talk to me on the phone..

she sends me these mixed messages.. and we talked very intimately on the phone, she even talked about me moving in with her.. I just think it was all a hoax.. she was just looking for a phone fling to make herself feel good i guess, because i use to lavish her with compliments..


Your thoughts?

[I wArFaRe I]

you're corny

[*Deuce Wilde*]

what the fuck...... you've never met her.... she's not "burning" you, dude.

let it go. forget about her. meet someone in person who does have time for you...

[STIllMathematical]

lol

[PHD]

hahahaha this shit is HOS worthy

[*Deuce Wilde*]

Originally Posted by PHD

hahahaha this shit is HOS worthy

lol would be the shortest HOS thread in history, did it himself in the first post

[STIllMathematical]

yeah guy, what the fuck

[InFiNiT_EEE]

Um...sounds like she doesnt really like you that much, or at least not as much as you like her... It's not worth your time.

Also, no point sacrificing the things you expect/want from a chick-interest.. if you find yourself constantly taking away from what you want... you ultimately wont be satisfied, even if you do "get her" in the end.