moving in with your girl...

Al Murder U · 10-25-2006, 04:41 AM

thoughts on this situation....should u let her move in with you, move in, under HER roof, 50/50, or just not do it?

McCizoy · 10-25-2006, 07:42 PM

Best case scenario is you move in with her. That way if shit don't work out you can just pack up your shit and move on. I know this dude who was going through hell because he and the chick broke up but she "didn't have anywhere to go" so he let her stay until she got things in order which was like 2 months later

. Dude was miserable.

iLL Rich · 10-25-2006, 09:50 PM

i think u should be with each other for at least a year and both have streams of income to do this

but dont move her into ur mommas house, lol!! <-- never a good look

-LikeWise- · 10-25-2006, 10:06 PM

if you go 50/50.... it's gonna be hell for you guys when you break up.... alot of stuff to handle....

i'd say move into HER place....

why?

cause you can pack your shit and leave and not look back...

the only con to that is if you cheat on her she's not gonna want to give you your stuff....and your gonna have to go to the police so they can come with you to get your stuff.....and occasionally she's gonna kick you out....

it depends on your girl really....if she's a physco chick or just a girl who enjoy drama/arguments.... i wouldnt move in with her...ESPECIALLY if she's a girl who likes to argue.... domestic violence is no joke, u dont want that on your record.

Al Murder U · 10-25-2006, 11:39 PM

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Originally Posted by DcMthrd

Best case scenario is you move in with her. That way if shit don't work out you can just pack up your shit and move on. I know this dude who was going through hell because he and the chick broke up but she "didn't have anywhere to go" so he let her stay until she got things in order which was like 2 months later

. Dude was miserable.

that makes sense, but alot of people have said she can try to kick you out, all that bs, it's power she has over you..however, its all gravy, i always got somewhere to go. the thing is, like i dont want her tryna run my life. we aitn married, whatever...but i dont even answer to my mother, if we aint married, i deserve my freedom..

Al Murder U · 10-25-2006, 11:43 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by iLL Rich

i think u should be with each other for at least a year and both have streams of income to do this

but dont move her into ur mommas house, lol!! <-- never a good look

yea, it's been like a year and a half...she actually, be over here with me at my house for the most par, thats just how its been, we always talked about it, but i never wanted to rush into something. right now im looking for a j o, but she been stackin bread, and id say at least 4/7 days she brings the topic up.

ive stayed over her moms house, but i never wanted to move over there...i mean, i could just stay and never leave til i wanted, butit aint even like that....

Get ya glocks and ya gloves
put ya box in the mud
ride drops on dubs
we gon live by that

Al Murder U · 10-25-2006, 11:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by -LikeWise-

if you go 50/50.... it's gonna be hell for you guys when you break up.... alot of stuff to handle....

i'd say move into HER place....

why?

cause you can pack your shit and leave and not look back...

the only con to that is if you cheat on her she's not gonna want to give you your stuff....and your gonna have to go to the police so they can come with you to get your stuff.....and occasionally she's gonna kick you out....

it depends on your girl really....if she's a physco chick or just a girl who enjoy drama/arguments.... i wouldnt move in with her...ESPECIALLY if she's a girl who likes to argue.... domestic violence is no joke, u dont want that on your record.

i already know all that, and as i said above, i really dont want her tryna act crazy, or say, this is my house, whatever...ya know...

but so far, thats crazy, totally different opinions online...

H Shellz · 10-26-2006, 12:22 AM

Moving in with HER

.... defiently a fucking negatory

let her move in with YOU... and shit, if any problems occur simply kick her the fuck out

oh and if she says she has nowhere to go

send the bitch to her parents house

McCizoy · 10-26-2006, 12:54 AM

easier said then done.

Anyway moving in with your bitch is basically the last step before marriage so think about that shit long and hard. My girl was talking bout moving in with me when I get my own spot the beginning of next year. I KO'd that idea real quick.

-LikeWise- · 10-26-2006, 01:21 AM

there's a law.... even if its your house....name on everything, you own everything...but that person has been living with you for a certain amount of time.... you have to give them a notice and you cant just kick them out....

i saw it on cops and some judge shows....ha

anyway

if you really feeling ol girl... i say go for it.... you only got one life and it can be a really good expierence..... so much freedom between you two... its fun too..... i lived with a girl for a short while and it was hella fun....just gotta weigh the pros and cons and see if the PROS are worth the cons.....in your situation....

McCizoy · 10-26-2006, 01:50 AM

^haha true that shit always comes up on Judge Mathis. That show's crazy...

B. Fury · 10-26-2006, 08:26 AM

I didn't bother reading anybody elses comment too much, but I'll say this: It's good to live by yourself for a good while if you haven't already. The same thing goes for your girlfriend. And like one dude said already, moving in is the last step before tying the knot. Make sure both ya'll are working if you do so...but good luck whatever decision you make mayne.

Blaine Fontaine · 10-26-2006, 10:41 AM

im not livin with no broad unless i put a ring on her finger...or we gotta kid fuck that i need my space

Al Murder U · 10-26-2006, 03:08 PM

thanx for everyones opinion.

misspimp · 10-26-2006, 06:20 PM

My boyfriend just moved back in with me yesterday.
The first time he moved out was so he could be closer to school.
But everytime we got into a real heated argument I would always tell him to get the fuck out of my house, that's just a way to have some sort of control over him.
Once you move in with your girl with just her name on the lease, she is definetly going to think that she has some type of supreme rein over you and your shit. That's just how woman are.
Also when you move in with her most of your freedom is already gone. She is going to expect you to be in the house by a ceartin time, not to spend the night out no where, let her know when and where youre coming and going.
Oh trust alot of shit will change.
But it might be for the best
I dont believe that moving in is the last step before tying the knot.
Not the way people are shacking up nowadays.
But is alot better living with someone than by yourself b/c nine times out of ten that person is either going to be over there all the time or you will be where they are all the time and hell thats just a waste of rent and time.
The reason my boyfriend decided to move back in with me was so that we could both save money and not waste it living in two seperate places but being together everynight.
damn i wrote a book - but i hope it helps - get the lease in both names!!

iLL Rich · 10-26-2006, 11:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Al Murder U

Get ya glocks and ya gloves
put ya box in the mud
ride drops on dubs
we gon live by that

yes sir

anyways i hope u plan on marrying this braud otherwise it seems like a waste of time and headaches

Al Murder U · 10-27-2006, 02:15 AM

thats just it, i aint plannin on marryin her right now, im 20 fam/

SuB zer0 · 10-27-2006, 03:53 PM

i live with my girl

aint no problems for me

i think it depends on what kinda girl she is

mami lets a nigga breathe and vice versa

so we coo

10-25-2006, 04:41 AM	#1 (permalink)
Al Murder U Lyrically... Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: Killerado- The Real Hip Hop 5280 Posts: 7,231	moving in with your girl... thoughts on this situation....should u let her move in with you, move in, under HER roof, 50/50, or just not do it? __________________ ..l.. (-_-) ..l..

10-25-2006, 07:42 PM	#2 (permalink)
McCizoy I got stripes! Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: The Triad Posts: 7,476	Best case scenario is you move in with her. That way if shit don't work out you can just pack up your shit and move on. I know this dude who was going through hell because he and the chick broke up but she "didn't have anywhere to go" so he let her stay until she got things in order which was like 2 months later . Dude was miserable. __________________ I wish wasn't intellectually, socially, and financially inferior so I could have been a Blue Devil. Here's a towel wipe your face cool down have a drink its on me

10-25-2006, 10:06 PM	#4 (permalink)
-LikeWise- Is the Name... Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: West of Cleveland Posts: 1,555	if you go 50/50.... it's gonna be hell for you guys when you break up.... alot of stuff to handle.... i'd say move into HER place.... why? cause you can pack your shit and leave and not look back... the only con to that is if you cheat on her she's not gonna want to give you your stuff....and your gonna have to go to the police so they can come with you to get your stuff.....and occasionally she's gonna kick you out.... it depends on your girl really....if she's a physco chick or just a girl who enjoy drama/arguments.... i wouldnt move in with her...ESPECIALLY if she's a girl who likes to argue.... domestic violence is no joke, u dont want that on your record. __________________ ...the game is callin me.

10-26-2006, 12:22 AM	#8 (permalink)
H Shellz Smack cowards,Black Power Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: Home of Philly Posts: 2,422	Moving in with HER .... defiently a fucking negatory let her move in with YOU... and shit, if any problems occur simply kick her the fuck out oh and if she says she has nowhere to go send the bitch to her parents house Last edited by H Shellz; 10-26-2006 at 12:24 AM.

10-26-2006, 12:54 AM	#9 (permalink)
McCizoy I got stripes! Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: The Triad Posts: 7,476	easier said then done. Anyway moving in with your bitch is basically the last step before marriage so think about that shit long and hard. My girl was talking bout moving in with me when I get my own spot the beginning of next year. I KO'd that idea real quick. __________________ I wish wasn't intellectually, socially, and financially inferior so I could have been a Blue Devil. Here's a towel wipe your face cool down have a drink its on me

10-25-2006, 09:50 PM	#3 (permalink)
iLL Rich ... Join Date: Nov 2001 Posts: 42,675	i think u should be with each other for at least a year and both have streams of income to do this but dont move her into ur mommas house, lol!! <-- never a good look

10-26-2006, 01:21 AM	#10 (permalink)
-LikeWise- Is the Name... Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: West of Cleveland Posts: 1,555	there's a law.... even if its your house....name on everything, you own everything...but that person has been living with you for a certain amount of time.... you have to give them a notice and you cant just kick them out.... i saw it on cops and some judge shows....ha anyway if you really feeling ol girl... i say go for it.... you only got one life and it can be a really good expierence..... so much freedom between you two... its fun too..... i lived with a girl for a short while and it was hella fun....just gotta weigh the pros and cons and see if the PROS are worth the cons.....in your situation.... __________________ ...the game is callin me.

10-26-2006, 01:50 AM	#11 (permalink)
McCizoy I got stripes! Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: The Triad Posts: 7,476	^haha true that shit always comes up on Judge Mathis. That show's crazy... __________________ I wish wasn't intellectually, socially, and financially inferior so I could have been a Blue Devil. Here's a towel wipe your face cool down have a drink its on me

10-26-2006, 08:26 AM	#12 (permalink)
B. Fury On the Eastside... Join Date: May 2002 Location: atl/dc Posts: 1,806	I didn't bother reading anybody elses comment too much, but I'll say this: It's good to live by yourself for a good while if you haven't already. The same thing goes for your girlfriend. And like one dude said already, moving in is the last step before tying the knot. Make sure both ya'll are working if you do so...but good luck whatever decision you make mayne.

10-26-2006, 10:41 AM	#13 (permalink)
Blaine Fontaine property hustla Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: city of broke down dreams Posts: 3,568	im not livin with no broad unless i put a ring on her finger...or we gotta kid fuck that i need my space __________________ Philly>your city

10-26-2006, 03:08 PM	#14 (permalink)
Al Murder U Lyrically... Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: Killerado- The Real Hip Hop 5280 Posts: 7,231	thanx for everyones opinion. __________________ ..l.. (-_-) ..l..

10-26-2006, 06:20 PM	#15 (permalink)
misspimp a.k.a KATURAH Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: Virginia Is For Lovers Posts: 1,308	My boyfriend just moved back in with me yesterday. The first time he moved out was so he could be closer to school. But everytime we got into a real heated argument I would always tell him to get the fuck out of my house, that's just a way to have some sort of control over him. Once you move in with your girl with just her name on the lease, she is definetly going to think that she has some type of supreme rein over you and your shit. That's just how woman are. Also when you move in with her most of your freedom is already gone. She is going to expect you to be in the house by a ceartin time, not to spend the night out no where, let her know when and where youre coming and going. Oh trust alot of shit will change. But it might be for the best I dont believe that moving in is the last step before tying the knot. Not the way people are shacking up nowadays. But is alot better living with someone than by yourself b/c nine times out of ten that person is either going to be over there all the time or you will be where they are all the time and hell thats just a waste of rent and time. The reason my boyfriend decided to move back in with me was so that we could both save money and not waste it living in two seperate places but being together everynight. damn i wrote a book - but i hope it helps - get the lease in both names!! __________________ MAD LOVE "Never to suffer would never to have been blessed" ~THE LATE GREAT ~ ~EDGAR ALLEN POE ~

10-27-2006, 02:15 AM	#17 (permalink)
Al Murder U Lyrically... Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: Killerado- The Real Hip Hop 5280 Posts: 7,231	thats just it, i aint plannin on marryin her right now, im 20 fam/ __________________ ..l.. (-_-) ..l..

10-27-2006, 03:53 PM	#18 (permalink)
SuB zer0 A.D.R.I.A.N.N.A Join Date: Apr 2000 Location: L.A. Jungles Posts: 15,394	i live with my girl aint no problems for me i think it depends on what kinda girl she is mami lets a nigga breathe and vice versa so we coo __________________ WESTCOAST the irony of sellin drugs is sorta like you usin it...guess its two sides to what substance abuse is COWBOYS RUN THE NFC