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Old 01-04-2006, 01:07 PM   #1 (permalink)
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I would like a female's perspective about something within marriage...
[Recently, I was at dinner with friends and the issue of marriage came up. All of the women were naturally saying that marriage is a beautiful thing between two people who love each other. The men were basically saying "why do we need a piece of paper?" The one point that was made by the one male who had actually been married that I thought was interesting and would like to explore more was the fact that women change once they get married. He asserted that women become more free to disrespect men once they became married, because they felt comfortable and more certain that the man wouldn't leave as easily because getting a divorce is more difficult than simply saying its over when you're only in a relationship. He went on to say that, once women get the comittment of marriage they will push boundaries further than before. I say all of this to ask, for those of you that are married to you think this is true? For those of you that are not married, but have observed married people or just have an opinion on, what do you think? Keep in mind that I am not assuming that men don't change also once they enter into a marriage, I'm just more interested in this specific aspect of change that my friend said that women go through.]

I haven't posted here in a while, so I'm not sure if more males still post than females, but if so, the guys can feel free to add a response, but it probably won't be very productive. Thanks in advance for the responses.
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Old 01-04-2006, 09:54 PM   #2 (permalink)
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women change once they get married. He asserted that women become more free to disrespect men once they became married, because they felt comfortable and more certain that the man wouldn't leave as easily because getting a divorce is more difficult than simply saying its over when you're only in a relationship. He went on to say that, once women get the comittment of marriage they will push boundaries further than before. I say all of this to ask, for those of you that are married to you think this is true? For those of you that are not married, but have observed married people or just have an opinion on, what do you think?
I think there's an air of truth to it... I'm not married, but I do believe that people get married, get comfortable and start taking one another for granted... I think "marriage" gives them more leeway to just "be themselves" since they already "got" their spouse and don't have to front like they did when they were dating... like they feel a level of security b/c it's a lot less likely that their "spouse" will walk than it would be for their "boy/girlfriend" to. Fortunately, I have seen some successful marriages where that doesnt appear to be the case... can't tell you their secret to success b/c I don't know what it is... but from what I've observed, it seems to be mutual respect and willingness to make it work. I don't think there are any guarantees, but I do believe that a person's behavior before marriage is the best inicator of what their behavior will be like after marriage... if she's disrespecting him before the ring, thats not likely to change once she gets it. Too, I think some people get married who really shouldn't have, then they end up resenting their spouse and that's where a lot of the disrespect comes from.

Sorry, cant offer too much insight... I'm speaking from speculation/assumption, not any first-hand experience... but thats what I see from an outsider's perspective.

As a woman, I worry about this, too... A LOT! One of the reasons I'm so apprehensive about getting married. I know you're addressing this to get the ladies p.o.v. on why other ladies do it, but I'd like to hear from the fellas as well.
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I've been married 6.5yrs now. I can say that both my husband and I have changed as ppl during this time. But I don't think we've changed the way you're describing. I know myself don't see marriage as being my token to be more demanding. It's just as easy to leave now, as it was when we were dating. IMO anyway.
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I'm not married yet, but engaged and we've been living together for 3 1/2 years now and if I was going to get like that, I would have done it by now lol
I'm very secure in my relationship and the only difference that piece of paper will make to me will be it will make us "legal" more or less. Of course I have other reasons for wanting to marry him but that's a different topic. Just generally speaking here, that there is nothing about marriage that is going to make me change from who I am already.

I guess i have a problem with thinking some women will only show their true colors after marriage...makes me feel sorry for the guy actually.
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Of course I have other reasons for wanting to marry him but that's a different topic.
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What can I say..I'm gettin old and just not "down" like I used to be lol
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