now that we got that sexist banter off of our chests...

[tight-eyes]

[what are some of the things you do/say that go against some of your sexist views..? things you wouldn't tell you girls/boys about because you would get teased from now until Jesus came... spill it!

I admit:

- I make up my man's bed and straighten up his room when he's not around (yeah yeah yeah, fuck you)

- I stroke his ego to make him feel good about himself - ex: compliment him often (though, genuine), acting awed by his "big ole' muscles", extra moans and scratches, asking for his advise even when I really don't need it just to make him feel "needed", etc. (yeah yeah yeah, fuck you)

- I'd rather let him drive... not that I can't or that I'm not good at it (never been in an accident and I have an excellent sense of diretion)... but I hate driving for the most part and I feel weird driving my grown-ass boyfriend around like I'm his chauffeur

- I secretly like it that he gets on me about handling my business and not doing things I really have no business doing in the first place (i.e. getting behind the wheel after I've had a few drinks)... I may put up a stink, but that's mainly because I'm hard headed and don't like to be told what to do... but I really do appreciate the fact that he looks out for me... he's never condescending or obnoxious about it, though... that, I really appreciate

- when I'm really into someone I actually want to do all of those motherly/nurturing things for him - cooking, cleaning, greeting him and his morning wood with some warm and tender fellatio... you know, stuff like that

I know I'm going to have my Femi-Nazi club membership revoked for this... but it's true ]

now you...

[Mr. Steve S.]

greeting him and his morning wood with some warm and tender fellatio

Bless you.

[BoDi]

cool.

[tight-eyes]

figures... scaredy cats.

[Ignorant]

Originally Posted by tight-eyes

greeting him and his morning wood with some warm and tender fellatio

Seriously, if it doesn't work out with wifey, I'm coming to CA to scoop you.

[Ignorant]

Let's see...


-I hold her purse when she goes into the dressing room to try on clothes.

-I cook and clean more than she does.

-I secretly like it that she nags me, because I forget... I really do.

-Even though I'll use it when I'm holdin' my nuts, I really don't like the word "bitch"... even when they deserve the label... men can be that way, too... we're all human and subject to weakness and failures.

-I love saying "I love you" and showing it by treating her like the queen that she is.

-And as the man, the head, the leader... I don't mind making the most concessions, swallowing my pride, and being slow to anger because eventually she'll come around and apologize... but I won't back down if the situation calls for a decisive stand that I know to be right.

-I'm not a misogynist... I love women and I cringe whenever I see or hear of acts of violence against them or any type of abusive behavior that denigrates women... which is why I can't even bring myself to watch "What's Love Got To Do With It" or listen to pointless "gangsta rap" anymore

[tight-eyes]

Originally Posted by Ignorant

Seriously, if it doesn't work out with wifey, I'm coming to CA to scoop you.

likewise.

*waiting for lightening to strike me*

[tight-eyes]

Originally Posted by Ignorant

-I secretly like it that she nags me, because I forget... I really do.

you , too - eh..? I'll be like "okaaaaaaay, man... I get it! geeeeeez", but inside Im secretly going "awwwww.... he cares"

-I love saying "I love you" and showing it by treating her like the queen that she is.

awwwwwwwwwwwww [heart]

[Blaine Fontaine]

if you dont use it to to much so i wont catch on
a woman i care about can get me to do ne thing if she crys

not sayin i cant dress but i like my gf to pick out my clothes

i like cookin period i dont care if she cant boil water

ill go to the store for feminine products i dont care

if she gets mad and slaps my arm i act like it really hurts to make her think she did somethin
when i really think its cute

ill watch girly movies

[81sweetness]

I admit:

- I make up my man's bed and straighten up his room when he's not around


hahaha...you admit?

I thought keeping your man's bed all nice and spiffy for him was a given when he's not around. guess I'm just too nice to men.

anyways

I admit -

I buy lots of frizzy lingerie to keep my man interested in me and me only when it's time for the ol' sex sessions.

[R-Tistic]

Hmm, good one Tight Eyes, I got you....

-I think 95% of dudes who cheat with the girlfriends they have in HS and college will end up cheatin once they get married, regardless of the "I would never cheat on my wife" talk they give

-I hate when dudes refer to EVERY female as "bitch" or "hoe", such as "where yo hoes at", "u got hoes comin thru?" "y u aint got no hoes?" "what that bitch u talk to say last nite?" "it is no hoes here", etc. etc. etc....and I hear it ALL the damn time in college, especially round my homeboys.

-I can actually get with a girl who is a virgin and is savin herself for marriage, and not mind waitin however long before havin sex with her...however, if she's not a virgin before she gets with me, it's no way I will want to be with her if she tells me she doesn't want to have sex with me, regardless of whatever revelations or born again experiences she may claim to have.

-I don't mind watchin some love stories with a girl, long as they aren't too sappy or corny/fake. Also, I don't mind watchin a movie with a girl that "guarantees no ass", such as The Gospel or somethin Church-related.

-I don't ever try to put blame on a female for anything that is my fault, or attempt to turn a situation around on her, even when the path is clear to do so. For example, somethin that happens with my homeboys is that their girl might find out they are talkin to another girl or got a girls number, but the girl will find out cause she checked his messages. Instead of apologizin or makin up reasons for what they did, the dude will be like "hold the fuck up....y the hell are you checkin my messages??? That's your fault now, you look stupid because I really don't talk to her and she called for class and I can prove it, but you just tryin to catch me up cause u insecure" and then the whole shit is on the girl. So yeah, even though that works and it's an easy way out sometimes, I can swallow the pride for a quick second and apologize IF I did anything wrong.

-Even though I have never done it (came close but never did), I wouldn't be mad if I ended up cryin over a female, long as it was like one time then from there on out I was like fuck her. I wouldn't be on some bitter shit or on some "wah wah" every day, but just like once when I found out what she did or whatever the situation was.

-I honestly hate findin out that certain girls get around, even if I had the chance to do somethin with them. I wish more girls, especially at my school, weren't flips and didn't have bad reps, because it REEAAALLY seems like it's way more flips than girls that you would wife, even though it might not even be the case. And I also hate when dudes label certain females as hoes or flips without really knowin the truth about em...."yeah I heard she gives head" and alla that.

-I get annoyed hearin dudes talk about every female like they are easy as hell to mess wit or to have sex with, especially when they know that they really do like a female and wanna get with her. U kno how some will be like "yeah that girl I was wit yesterday got ass, I am gonna try to hit this week" when the reality is "yeah she is a very coo person and I really wanna get with her, but I don't wanna seem like a simp"

And last, which I may get some heat for but fuckit.....
-From how I see it, the majority of dudes that females seem to be attracted to, mainly speakin for the black community, are the main ones who usually cheat. I can't say it's really the females fault that they may be attracted to them, and maybe the swagger or charm that attracts them is what attracts the other females. But from me bein around every type of black dude that there probably is (yeah there are 100s of different generalized "types"), the ones who most girls are on that I know personally usually are the main ones who cheat. There are a few who don't really get girls who cheat, and some who get jocked and don't cheat, but that's usually not the case. So be careful!!

[samii so sexii]

ok....here i go:


- even though I always get mad at him and tell him he's "not my damn father!" i love it when he takes care of me, babies me, then rubs my head and says everything is goin to be ok.

- even though i always go off and call him a chauvanist, and spout that im not his fuckin maid, i love to cook his favorite foods, or clean up his room cuz i know he'll appreciate it.

- even though i HATE it when he plays video games, cuz i know that sometimes they get more attention than me, i bought him an Xbox360 for christmas just cuz i know he would have loved it.

- i like to give him oral and hear him enjoy it even though i HATE the idea of sucking dick. again, cuz i know he would like it.

- i love to take care of him when he's sick or rub his shoulders when he says he had a rough day cuz i want to be the thing in his life that takes away stress and eases pain

- no matter how nonchalant i act, his opinions matter, and there are certain things that i don't do or say just cuz i know how he feels about the matter.



UGH! i feel like such a pussy after sayin all this....blah

[Dat Wigga Jamal]

Originally Posted by samii so sexii

ok....here i go:


- even though I always get mad at him and tell him he's "not my damn father!" i love it when he takes care of me, babies me, then rubs my head and says everything is goin to be ok.

- even though i always go off and call him a chauvanist, and spout that im not his fuckin maid, i love to cook his favorite foods, or clean up his room cuz i know he'll appreciate it.

- even though i HATE it when he plays video games, cuz i know that sometimes they get more attention than me, i bought him an Xbox360 for christmas just cuz i know he would have loved it.

- i like to give him oral and hear him enjoy it even though i HATE the idea of sucking dick. again, cuz i know he would like it.

- i love to take care of him when he's sick or rub his shoulders when he says he had a rough day cuz i want to be the thing in his life that takes away stress and eases pain

- no matter how nonchalant i act, his opinions matter, and there are certain things that i don't do or say just cuz i know how he feels about the matter.



UGH! i feel like such a pussy after sayin all this....blah

thats why you shoulda posted this BEFORE you posted that shit in the sexist thread lol

[samii so sexii]

lmao....you're probably right

[Chokolate]

I can admit

I do love to cook for my man and I love to make all of his little favorites although it maybe something that I really do not like to eat

I like to keep the house extra clean especially the kitchen and bathroom I had to see stuff out of place with 3 kids its hard but I clean after they go to bed. Because I know he gets up in the middle of the night and there is nothing worse than stepping on a logo at 2am

Although I yell stop boi, I love it when he walks by and gives me that smack on the ass.

Although I may act extra sleepy at night and tell him to move I LOVE when he wakes me in the middle of the night for a "session". Sometimes I may wake him up at 2am with a little head treatment

on that same note I love giving fellatio it is such a turn on for me...especially when he is watching and we make that eye contact.

I like making is plate and bringing it to him, because he appriecates it

I dont really mind taking out the trash although I act like it soooo disgusting

I hate when he is away from me for more than a few hours

I like pampering him, ie greasing his scalp, massaging his head, buffing his nails, giving him a pedicure.

[Ignorant]

Originally Posted by R-Tistic

-I can actually get with a girl who is a virgin and is savin herself for marriage, and not mind waitin however long before havin sex with her...however, if she's not a virgin before she gets with me, it's no way I will want to be with her if she tells me she doesn't want to have sex with me, regardless of whatever revelations or born again experiences she may claim to have.

I feel you on this... that "born again virgin" crap is some more pseudo crackpot ideology, postmodern bullshit that people come up with every 20 mins.

[tight-eyes]

Originally Posted by R-Tistic

-I don't ever try to put blame on a female for anything that is my fault, or attempt to turn a situation around on her, even when the path is clear to do so. For example, somethin that happens with my homeboys is that their girl might find out they are talkin to another girl or got a girls number, but the girl will find out cause she checked his messages. Instead of apologizin or makin up reasons for what they did, the dude will be like "hold the fuck up....y the hell are you checkin my messages??? That's your fault now, you look stupid because I really don't talk to her and she called for class and I can prove it, but you just tryin to catch me up cause u insecure" and then the whole shit is on the girl. So yeah, even though that works and it's an easy way out sometimes, I can swallow the pride for a quick second and apologize IF I did anything wrong.

kudos to you for that one... I don't play that "flippin' the script" shit.

-I get annoyed hearin dudes talk about every female like they are easy as hell to mess wit or to have sex with, especially when they know that they really do like a female and wanna get with her. U kno how some will be like "yeah that girl I was wit yesterday got ass, I am gonna try to hit this week" when the reality is "yeah she is a very coo person and I really wanna get with her, but I don't wanna seem like a simp"

yeah, thats shitty... I always wondered why guys fronted like that. I caught an ex of mine doing that once, I overheard him bragging to his boy how he had me wrapped around his finger and breaking bread on him (when I never gave his ass a penny)... needless to say, he got the bootabout ten minutes later. His boy called me later that evening asking me to take him back, trying to explain to me that "that's just how guys talk to one another" and that my man really didn't mean anything by it. But yeah - that shit is lame.