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Old 09-21-2005, 10:43 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Do you ever use your sexuality to get what you want?
...be it actual sex, flirting, or dressing provocatively? Do you feel empowered when you achieve the desired results? How do you feel if it fails?
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Old 09-21-2005, 11:10 PM   #2 (permalink)
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I'm not above flirting to get my way... I admit it... but a lot of times, if you're cute, people just tend to want to give you your way. Then again, you have some that "think you think you're cute" so they do the opposite just to proove a point. It is empowering in some ways... but it can also backfire on you when the person you're flirting with expects you to follow up on it afterwards. Ex: you flirt - get your way - he expects something in return - you decline - he feels used - next time you get nada!

moral of the story: it's better to just PAY for what you want... it's a win/win situation!
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Old 09-22-2005, 06:27 AM   #3 (permalink)
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No I don't.

A man will always expect something in return...regardless if you felt what you were giving him was just 'innocent' or not.
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like this one time i whipped my cock out and rub it on this girls leg... and she bought me a burger...
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No I don't.

A man will always expect something in return...regardless if you felt what you were giving him was just 'innocent' or not.
I never go out of my way to do something for a woman just to get something in return, thats just lame.
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like this one time i whipped my cock out and rub it on this girls leg... and she bought me a burger...

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Of course im guna use what i have... sometimes it isn't even intentional. some guys just tend to give a beautiful girl what she wants if shes being extra nice to him to try and get laid.
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4real.. sometimes it doesn't happen actively.. it's like the situation brings it to pass w/o any direct encouragement from me. most of the time, all we have to do is just be the nice, beautiful women we are, and good things happen. it's the guys that fall for a big butt & a smile.. seems like we just have to show up and look good.
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I'm not above flirting to get my way... I admit it... but a lot of times, if you're cute, people just tend to want to give you your way. Then again, you have some that "think you think you're cute" so they do the opposite just to proove a point. It is empowering in some ways... but it can also backfire on you when the person you're flirting with expects you to follow up on it afterwards. Ex: you flirt - get your way - he expects something in return - you decline - he feels used - next time you get nada!

moral of the story: it's better to just PAY for what you want... it's a win/win situation!
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i must admit i do...

BUT as someone said before, its not always intentional, b/c most of the time people give me what I ask for...it's very rare to have people tell me no...and if they do tell me no at first, then I play up the sexuality, and they usually come around...if they don't, i'm like "man fuck em..." and move to the next person that can give me what i want

The only person that told me 'no' alot was my ex...b/c he knew how ppl treated me, and he wanted to make sure that i got a taste of the 'real' world, and that i wasn't spoiled or w/e (IMO, that was such bullshit lol)

i personally feel empowered when i do stuff like that...to know that all I have to do is give a certain look, and have what I want...i look at women who strip as empowered.

but i never sleep with someone for something I want, or promise that. Some men expect it, but that's their problem IMO lol
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if you do things, lets say flirt/use your sexuality to get what u want, guys pick up on that quick and feel played and used, therfore sami, when you said that u move onto the next when you dont get your way, there are plenty of guys movin on because they see all u are interested in is getting what u want. There's 2 sides to the coin.
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The only person that told me 'no' alot was my ex...b/c he knew how ppl treated me, and he wanted to make sure that i got a taste of the 'real' world, and that i wasn't spoiled or w/e (IMO, that was such bullshit lol)
thats kind of what I was saying, too... didn't happen with anyone I was with, but I think some people are just out to proove a point... women do it to other women, too - thinking you think you cute so they have to let you know you ain't "got it like that"... I've had a guy tell me that he needed to tell me "no" every now and then again just on GP, cause I'm a spoiled brat... lol... fucker!
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4real.. sometimes it doesn't happen actively.. it's like the situation brings it to pass w/o any direct encouragement from me. most of the time, all we have to do is just be the nice, beautiful women we are, and good things happen. it's the guys that fall for a big butt & a smile.. seems like we just have to show up and look good.
It's why I hate you beautiful women... and the big booty ones for thinkin' they're beautiful... and then wanna cry crocodile tears to try and manipulate us... death to you all!!!



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i must admit i do...

BUT as someone said before, its not always intentional, b/c most of the time people give me what I ask for...it's very rare to have people tell me no...and if they do tell me no at first, then I play up the sexuality, and they usually come around...if they don't, i'm like "man fuck em..." and move to the next person that can give me what i want

The only person that told me 'no' alot was my ex...b/c he knew how ppl treated me, and he wanted to make sure that i got a taste of the 'real' world, and that i wasn't spoiled or w/e (IMO, that was such bullshit lol)

i personally feel empowered when i do stuff like that...to know that all I have to do is give a certain look, and have what I want...i look at women who strip as empowered.

but i never sleep with someone for something I want, or promise that. Some men expect it, but that's their problem IMO lol
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How intact or resilient can your power be if it's based in such superficialities as beauty and sex appeal, especially when it can be taken away in a car accident, weight gain, or stank breath?

Strippers only have power in the strip club... most men I know wouldn't wife one... and besides power is better rated when it's earned instead of bought or given... as would be the case for plastic surgery/fake accessories or genetics. Money has power potential... but spending it on "butter" instead of "guns" will quickly dissipate that potential.

Is it true power if what you gain is acquired so easily?

Chew on that, sugar!
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thats kind of what I was saying, too... didn't happen with anyone I was with, but I think some people are just out to proove a point... women do it to other women, too - thinking you think you cute so they have to let you know you ain't "got it like that"... I've had a guy tell me that he needed to tell me "no" every now and then again just on GP, cause I'm a spoiled brat... lol... fucker!
That's how I acquired my game... by finally telling women "no"... if they stayed, I knew I had them... and it boosted my confidence... like I could tell samii so sexii "no" and she'd still give me some... but with you, I think a "hell no" would work... because it would get your pot boiling and that would in turn stimulate the sexual centers in your brain (I read that the aggression centers are right next to the sexual centers)... but because you're attracted to me, you'd check your anger and relent, then I'd smile at you to play it off... and then you'd jump my bones...

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That's how I acquired my game... by finally telling women "no"... if they stayed, I knew I had them... and it boosted my confidence... like I could tell samii so sexii "no" and she'd still give me some... but with you, I think a "hell no" would work... because it would get your pot boiling and that would in turn stimulate the sexual centers in your brain (I read that the aggression centers are right next to the sexual centers)... but because you're attracted to me, you'd check your anger and relent, then I'd smile at you to play it off... and then you'd jump my bones...

*snaps back from day-dream... hears wifey calling*

Coming, dear!!

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Seriously... I'm telling your wife to cancel that Cinemax subscription... you don't know how to act.

And as far as getting my way... I'm not one of those whiney ass women nor the loud and demanding type, either... I'd hit you with the sweet smile and tell a corny joke... you'd be falling over yourself trying to make sure I had what I needed... personality so cool you wouldn't ever want to tell me 'no'... now thats game, baby... can you dig it..?
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