4 Year Relationship gone 2 shit!!!!!(Needs Advice)

Grindaz4life · 09-08-2005, 04:31 AM

Me & My Girlfriend broke up a week ago. Here's why.

It all started in May when I began to work & intern for this local Radio station Power 92.3. I work for the Street Team so of course I have to promote different clubs & parties so she would get upset about me doing that.

Once I started to work for the station I would have 2 jobs. So to make a long story short i wasn't able to spend as much time with her as I used to.

Now being on the radio is a dream of mine so to be able to begin working on my career is a good thing. So of course she would begin to complain about me not taking her any where. I would try to assure her that as soon as I got some extra freetime and money that we would go out. But every week their would be a different arguement. I would tell her that all I need is for her 2 hold me down while I'm trying to achieve my dream.
And to just trust that I wasn't gonna cheat on hear wit the Power 92 groupies.(Yes Street Team Groupies)

4 Ex. She got upset because I wished my bestfriend (who is a female) happy birthday over the air. Or that say what up to other females over the air.

So it all came to a head last week.

I go 2 pick her up get something 2 eat & she asks about going to the Circle City Classics(Black Football Game). I told her that I can't afford 2 go & that i'm in grind mode so she flips out.

She starts trying to hop out of the whip while it's moving. So I stop and she hops out & walks to who grandmothers house around the corner from where we was at. So I go in to order my food & I see her walk past da spot. So I go outside & try 2 talk but she ignors me. So I go back in. 5 min later she comes in askin for my car keys. So I ignor her. She starts tryin 2 go into my pockets. So I tell her come outside & I tell her leave me alone & I walk back inside.

I come outside & she leanin on my car so I ask her 2 get off my car & go 2 her granny house. I open my car door & she hops in tryin 2 take my radio face off.
Then she trys 2 fight me to get the radio out my car. But I got it from her so she takes my keys out the ignition while the car is moving I stop & she takes off running.

But she leaves her purse in my car I pull up & give her back her purse & she throws my keys into this junk yard. So I take her purse & I break her cell phone.
So she really tries to fight me. I try 2 call 911 in my car but she jumps in & breaks MY cell phone & starts to break my CD's & toss them in da street.

Grindaz4life · 09-08-2005, 04:37 AM

**A week later**

I miss her every time I turn around I hear love songs & I don't really listen 2 RnB.

I was cleaning up 2 day & found her letters and our pictures.

I want 2 talk to her but I'm still kind of hurt that was so insecure that she couldn't hold me down while I'm trying to realise my dream of being an on air personality.

But how do you throw away 4 years of love.

So I don't know what to do????? Just say fuck it or Try 2 make dis shit work??

ADVICE PLEASE!!!!!!

SPoKeN PHiLoSoPHy · 09-08-2005, 05:21 AM

stop being such a pussy... thats my advice

knock her out and tea bag her ass... why u let her do all that stuff to u in public... shoulda pistol whipped her ass for makin a scene like that...

i say u ditch it

As Seen On Tv · 09-08-2005, 10:20 PM

yo son dont listen him

im sure ya girl listens to you on the radio and whateva so jus be like ' i wanna shot out my girl ________'

bit if she dont hear it then just try to catch up with her and tell her ur sorry, like get her another cell phone or somethin yall been together for four years and ending over somethin stupid like this

nah, dig get ya girl back

write her a letter or take her out to dinner or do somethin thats gon take her breath away

but in a week i swear u better be back with her

SPoKeN PHiLoSoPHy · 09-09-2005, 12:43 AM

^thats fuckin lame... why would he do that when his lady was the one who started this out of her own selfishness...

urban_tactics · 09-09-2005, 03:52 AM

i kno this is a tired cliche' but its the truest shit ever said......

if u let them go and they come back, they're yours

if u let them go and they dont come back, they were never yours in the first place.....

now...the answer is to let her go son.........take all her pictures, all the shit that reminds u of her and throw it in a box and put that shit in the back of the closet....delete her number out ya cellphone....delete her email addresses....get rid of errything that reminds u of her....allow it to HURT...but heal at the same time, feel me? just dont call her....just act like she dont exist...

and truthfully son, she got too many issues for u to be dealin wit her

sound like she got low self esteem....and she'l prolly cheat on u, if she hasnt already just to make herself feel like she worth somethin....her whole personality is outta wack....them are the worst kind of women to be with son....let the brod go........

skandelous_lala · 09-09-2005, 06:22 AM

Maybe I take too much shit but I wouldn't let a 4 year relationship go down the drain like that.

Yeah that's fucked up and all...but after 4 years and the end comes near...I don't think it would come to a head or end pretty either.

If you guys want it to work you need to talk shit out and figure out if you both want the same things out of life these days.

I realize that you want somebody to support your dreams and goals..and she should. But you also have to realize that if she is feeling neglected that is a big deal and if she can't handle the way things were...if it's going to work between you two...something has to change.

As Seen On Tv · 09-09-2005, 03:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SPoKeN PHiLoSoPHy

^thats fuckin lame... why would he do that when his lady was the one who started this out of her own selfishness...

son

he said he loves her and he hears her voice in his head

wtf

if he dont atleast try to get her back its his lost

SPoKeN PHiLoSoPHy · 09-09-2005, 05:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by As Seen On Tv

son

he said he loves her and he hears her voice in his head

wtf

if he dont atleast try to get her back its his lost

so what... u act like its the only girl for him...

stop giving this foo pussy whipped advice

As Seen On Tv · 09-09-2005, 10:49 PM

man fuck u go eat a dick

SPoKeN PHiLoSoPHy · 09-10-2005, 05:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by As Seen On Tv

man fuck u go eat a dick

im right tho

Brit Boi Gee · 09-10-2005, 08:29 PM

damn, you called 911? She musta gone buck wild

09-08-2005, 04:31 AM	#1 (permalink)
Grindaz4life Registered User Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: Gary Indiana Da Murda Capital Posts: 569	4 Year Relationship gone 2 shit!!!!!(Needs Advice) Me & My Girlfriend broke up a week ago. Here's why. It all started in May when I began to work & intern for this local Radio station Power 92.3. I work for the Street Team so of course I have to promote different clubs & parties so she would get upset about me doing that. Once I started to work for the station I would have 2 jobs. So to make a long story short i wasn't able to spend as much time with her as I used to. Now being on the radio is a dream of mine so to be able to begin working on my career is a good thing. So of course she would begin to complain about me not taking her any where. I would try to assure her that as soon as I got some extra freetime and money that we would go out. But every week their would be a different arguement. I would tell her that all I need is for her 2 hold me down while I'm trying to achieve my dream. And to just trust that I wasn't gonna cheat on hear wit the Power 92 groupies.(Yes Street Team Groupies) 4 Ex. She got upset because I wished my bestfriend (who is a female) happy birthday over the air. Or that say what up to other females over the air. So it all came to a head last week. I go 2 pick her up get something 2 eat & she asks about going to the Circle City Classics(Black Football Game). I told her that I can't afford 2 go & that i'm in grind mode so she flips out. She starts trying to hop out of the whip while it's moving. So I stop and she hops out & walks to who grandmothers house around the corner from where we was at. So I go in to order my food & I see her walk past da spot. So I go outside & try 2 talk but she ignors me. So I go back in. 5 min later she comes in askin for my car keys. So I ignor her. She starts tryin 2 go into my pockets. So I tell her come outside & I tell her leave me alone & I walk back inside. I come outside & she leanin on my car so I ask her 2 get off my car & go 2 her granny house. I open my car door & she hops in tryin 2 take my radio face off. Then she trys 2 fight me to get the radio out my car. But I got it from her so she takes my keys out the ignition while the car is moving I stop & she takes off running. But she leaves her purse in my car I pull up & give her back her purse & she throws my keys into this junk yard. So I take her purse & I break her cell phone. So she really tries to fight me. I try 2 call 911 in my car but she jumps in & breaks MY cell phone & starts to break my CD's & toss them in da street. __________________ Just Dropin 2 Pennies in a Jar!!!!! So Fuck You!!!!!!!!!!!!! Last edited by Grindaz4life; 09-08-2005 at 04:42 AM.

09-08-2005, 04:37 AM	#2 (permalink)
Grindaz4life Registered User Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: Gary Indiana Da Murda Capital Posts: 569	**Continued A week later** I miss her every time I turn around I hear love songs & I don't really listen 2 RnB. I was cleaning up 2 day & found her letters and our pictures. I want 2 talk to her but I'm still kind of hurt that was so insecure that she couldn't hold me down while I'm trying to realise my dream of being an on air personality. But how do you throw away 4 years of love. So I don't know what to do????? Just say fuck it or Try 2 make dis shit work?? ADVICE PLEASE!!!!!! __________________ Just Dropin 2 Pennies in a Jar!!!!! So Fuck You!!!!!!!!!!!!! Last edited by Grindaz4life; 09-08-2005 at 04:40 AM.

09-08-2005, 05:21 AM	#3 (permalink)
SPoKeN PHiLoSoPHy crazy ill, mad rowdy Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: OXNARD Posts: 2,988	stop being such a pussy... thats my advice knock her out and tea bag her ass... why u let her do all that stuff to u in public... shoulda pistol whipped her ass for makin a scene like that... i say u ditch it __________________ heroes for hire..!

09-08-2005, 10:20 PM	#4 (permalink)
As Seen On Tv josh hamltn ur high pitch Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: 973/718 Posts: 21,027	yo son dont listen him im sure ya girl listens to you on the radio and whateva so jus be like ' i wanna shot out my girl ________' bit if she dont hear it then just try to catch up with her and tell her ur sorry, like get her another cell phone or somethin yall been together for four years and ending over somethin stupid like this nah, dig get ya girl back write her a letter or take her out to dinner or do somethin thats gon take her breath away but in a week i swear u better be back with her __________________ ("we won nigga! fuck u") -Neezy shittin' all over Odd Job after he was bitchin' about how we shouldn't say "we won" because it divides the country and we should celebrate as a whole. Call me God like you from Wu Tang

09-09-2005, 12:43 AM	#5 (permalink)
SPoKeN PHiLoSoPHy crazy ill, mad rowdy Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: OXNARD Posts: 2,988	^thats fuckin lame... why would he do that when his lady was the one who started this out of her own selfishness... __________________ heroes for hire..!

09-09-2005, 06:22 AM	#7 (permalink)
skandelous_lala back from the dead Join Date: Sep 2000 Location: Hey! Fuck you and the horse you rode in on! Posts: 26,707	Maybe I take too much shit but I wouldn't let a 4 year relationship go down the drain like that. Yeah that's fucked up and all...but after 4 years and the end comes near...I don't think it would come to a head or end pretty either. If you guys want it to work you need to talk shit out and figure out if you both want the same things out of life these days. I realize that you want somebody to support your dreams and goals..and she should. But you also have to realize that if she is feeling neglected that is a big deal and if she can't handle the way things were...if it's going to work between you two...something has to change. __________________ ALL YOU REALLY KNOW IS WHAT I CHOOSE TO SHOW Good Mourning, Good afternoon, Good nite, what have you done with your life?. Everybody's time comes to be embraced by the light you only afraid to die when you ain't livin right

09-09-2005, 10:49 PM	#10 (permalink)
As Seen On Tv josh hamltn ur high pitch Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: 973/718 Posts: 21,027	man fuck u go eat a dick __________________ ("we won nigga! fuck u") -Neezy shittin' all over Odd Job after he was bitchin' about how we shouldn't say "we won" because it divides the country and we should celebrate as a whole. Call me God like you from Wu Tang

09-10-2005, 08:29 PM	#12 (permalink)
Brit Boi Gee manifest the zen Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: Near To Athena Posts: 15,826	damn, you called 911? She musta gone buck wild __________________ Those friends thou hast, and their adoption tried, Grapple them to thy soul with hoops of steel. -William Shakespeare Brit Boi has a highly calibrated wifermometer

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