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10-05-2009, 04:47 PM
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Do you think its wrong....
if your partner wants something sexually that you won't do if s/he got it from someone else? Assuming the relationship is not just good great, do you think the proper course of action should be: 1) for him/her to suck it up and go without, 2) for you to be ok with him/her getting it from somewhere else, 3) to chastise him/her for having the desire in the first place 4) for you two to break up and move on
Thoughts?
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10-05-2009, 05:43 PM
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Id let him get it from somebody else depending on who that somebody else was
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10-05-2009, 07:53 PM
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Suck it up and do it. He'll find someone else who will if you won't. And if he's a cheater, he'll find someone else to cheat on regardless.
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10-05-2009, 09:15 PM
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none of the above.
its your fault for not finding out about your partners eccentricities especially when it comes to sex before committing to a relationship.
before my man was "my man" i found out what all his little "kinks" were. i didn't do it to see if he was a freak tht would be into something i wasn't...i did it so i could please him...but it turned into us making sure we were sexually compatible.
for real...if you didn't know your dude was into wearing dresses and high heels before you decided to "wife" him thats your fckin bad...
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10-06-2009, 02:58 PM
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Lol! ^ That's real, though.
Nobody likes to feel/be neglected. That's kinda like me wanting something & my partner telling me NO. That right there is a problem, vice versa. So then what? I'm the faithful type so I won't resort to anything w/ another person...sometimes you realize stuff when it's too late in the game.
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10-07-2009, 07:16 PM
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Originally Posted by samii so sexii
none of the above.
its your fault for not finding out about your partners eccentricities especially when it comes to sex before committing to a relationship.
before my man was "my man" i found out what all his little "kinks" were. i didn't do it to see if he was a freak tht would be into something i wasn't...i did it so i could please him...but it turned into us making sure we were sexually compatible.
for real...if you didn't know your dude was into wearing dresses and high heels before you decided to "wife" him thats your fckin bad...
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What if your partner WAS into that freaky shit but then she/he flipped the script and started losing the desire after you got married/committed and shit... then what do you do? Aha! That's USUALLY the case.
They say men stop doing what it takes to get the woman after they get her... but cot dammit, women do the same shit... y'all don't suck with the same frequency as before when the relationship was new... ya'll don't cook a brother a good meal like you used to... and then a lot of y'all asses gain weight... c'mon, Sammi... drop the science.
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10-07-2009, 07:17 PM
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Originally Posted by RealMS
Lol! ^ That's real, though.
Nobody likes to feel/be neglected. That's kinda like me wanting something & my partner telling me NO. That right there is a problem, vice versa. So then what? I'm the faithful type so I won't resort to anything w/ another person...sometimes you realize stuff when it's too late in the game.
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I can't imagine a brother telling you 'no' for anything.
You'd make a player lose his game.
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10-07-2009, 09:07 PM
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10-07-2009, 09:07 PM
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Originally Posted by Ignorant
What if your partner WAS into that freaky shit but then she/he flipped the script and started losing the desire after you got married/committed and shit... then what do you do? Aha! That's USUALLY the case.
They say men stop doing what it takes to get the woman after they get her... but cot dammit, women do the same shit... y'all don't suck with the same frequency as before when the relationship was new... ya'll don't cook a brother a good meal like you used to... and then a lot of y'all asses gain weight... c'mon, Sammi... drop the science.
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i'll say this: if a dude liked to suck dick, but then he met you and his desire to cock gobble decreased...bottom line: he's still gay, and for tht reason, im not fckin with him.
you pickin up what im throwin down?
And you are right, people do become comfortable in their relationships...I havent fell prey to all the old wives trappings yet...im technically still in my honeymoon phase, so you know...
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as far as the weight gain, that is something of heavy debate in my mind. At a comfortable size 5/7 [depending on the brand] i am the smallest chick my man has ever been with. wondering if i should go up a jean size or two...try and get my thicka than a snicka on....eh...
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10-08-2009, 12:26 AM
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I'm down for whatever my girl throws my way as long as it don't involve other individuals, inserting anything my way (the only thing that should go in a man is food, water and air) and that bondage bullshit or salad tossin, I can't stand that gay shit some dudes be talkin about.
My woman aint into that shit anyway and I agree with samii, if you aint find out all the info on your s/o thats all on you.
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10-08-2009, 02:37 PM
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Originally Posted by Ignorant
What if your partner WAS into that freaky shit but then she/he flipped the script and started losing the desire after you got married/committed and shit... then what do you do? Aha! That's USUALLY the case.
They say men stop doing what it takes to get the woman after they get her... but cot dammit, women do the same shit... y'all don't suck with the same frequency as before when the relationship was new... ya'll don't cook a brother a good meal like you used to... and then a lot of y'all asses gain weight... c'mon, Sammi... drop the science.
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Um, I beg to differ. A lot of yall niggas seem to do a lot of drinking and sittin around the house instead of getting up in the morning to go run and then yall muhfuckas will eat and drink up every damn thing in the frig and won't offer to go grocery shopping or bring any food home for everyone else to eat. Please don't get me started. I'm having "ex" flashbacks.
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10-08-2009, 04:50 PM
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Originally Posted by Ignorant
I can't imagine a brother telling you 'no' for anything.
You'd make a player lose his game.
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Lose his game, pick it back up & then toss the card out for good once he matured.
I used to have a problem with him going to the gym all the time & working out b/c it seemed like he was obsessed with himself. & then when he stopped going so often I didn't have a problem with that because I loved him either way. He didn't believe that. As long as you don't completely lose yourself I guess.
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10-08-2009, 07:05 PM
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Originally Posted by samii so sexii
i'll say this: if a dude liked to suck dick, but then he met you and his desire to cock gobble decreased...bottom line: he's still gay, and for tht reason, im not fckin with him.
you pickin up what im throwin down? 
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See, I made a serious point and you gotta clown... smh.
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And you are right, people do become comfortable in their relationships...I havent fell prey to all the old wives trappings yet...im technically still in my honeymoon phase, so you know...
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Well, the honeymoon phase can last forever, but it's up to you two.
It always warms my heart (yes, I do have one) whenever I see an old geezer couple holding hands and acting like little teens... and they been married for 50 years.
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as far as the weight gain, that is something of heavy debate in my mind. At a comfortable size 5/7 [depending on the brand] i am the smallest chick my man has ever been with. wondering if i should go up a jean size or two...try and get my thicka than a snicka on....eh...
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But you're thick up top... and that's all I'd prefer anyway, but I'm not your man... I like 'em petite, they're easier to swing in mad different positions and they tend to be more flexible...
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10-08-2009, 07:09 PM
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Originally Posted by Imperial1
Um, I beg to differ. A lot of yall niggas seem to do a lot of drinking and sittin around the house instead of getting up in the morning to go run and then yall muhfuckas will eat and drink up every damn thing in the frig and won't offer to go grocery shopping or bring any food home for everyone else to eat. Please don't get me started. I'm having "ex" flashbacks.
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That's THOSE cats... I stay in the gym, sister... my abs are like spladddaccck!!
I try to keep a strong body, strong mind and strong spirit... the world is full of predators.
On the real though, it's not even close... obese women outnumber obese men by a long shot...
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10-08-2009, 08:32 PM
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Originally Posted by Ignorant
That's THOSE cats... I stay in the gym, sister... my abs are like spladddaccck!!
I try to keep a strong body, strong mind and strong spirit... the world is full of predators.
On the real though, it's not even close... obese women outnumber obese men by a long shot...
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Sometimes the fat in obese women might be baby fat. Unless they have high metabolism, that baby fat ain't easy to get rid of. Especially if you poppin babies out back to back. (cue in Frankie and Neffe.)
Can I see your abs?
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10-09-2009, 02:17 AM
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when i love someone there is nothing i wouldnt do
so...no need for him to get it from someone else
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10-12-2009, 07:33 AM
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Originally Posted by Imperial1
Sometimes the fat in obese women might be baby fat. Unless they have high metabolism, that baby fat ain't easy to get rid of. Especially if you poppin babies out back to back. (cue in Frankie and Neffe.)
Can I see your abs?
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i aint tryina here that my wife just had a baby in march and was back to her reg size before summer...eat right and work out if you gain 15 while preg...never lose it gain another 15 when your preg again...never lose it dont eat right or nothing...then you'll be almost 40 and 30-40 pounds bigger then you use to be
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10-12-2009, 07:34 AM
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thread related...if i feel i have to go anywhere else to get anything then i dont need to be with who im with
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10-12-2009, 11:22 AM
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i aint tryina here that my wife just had a baby in march and was back to her reg size before summer...eat right and work out if you gain 15 while preg...never lose it gain another 15 when your preg again...never lose it dont eat right or nothing...then you'll be almost 40 and 30-40 pounds bigger then you use to be
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How do you work out while you're preggers? (I've never been preggers, so I wanna know.)
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10-12-2009, 01:13 PM
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How do you work out while you're preggers? (I've never been preggers, so I wanna know.)
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You're supposed to work out actually. Up until a certain month, you are supposed to.
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