Actually, it took a while for my husband to understand that I realy DO want to know. Like if I'm wearing something that doesn't look good and I ask how it looks, I want the truth. And he'll tell me and I'll go change. No problem. Don't get mean tho, don't say "you like a beached whale" or something stupid like that...usually, I have an idea about whats wrong with it and will ask a specific question..."does this look like its pulling too much accross the breast" or something. But I'll never ask, "does my butt look big in this?" DUH, it looks big in everything...you just asking for trouble when you do that shit.
"about it or another woman?" Do you mean your woman askes you if other women are attractive then gets mad when you say yes?
Husband and I do this all the time. Goes something like...
me "do you think she's pretty?" Its usually, cause either I do or I'm not sure
him "Yeah..." then he'll say something about her that pretty, like she has nice eyes or something
me "Yeah, I agree..."
him "Ya want to invite her home?"
me "Ok, go ahead."
He never does tho

LOL
Actually, I had him go check out this new girl working at the convience store down the road from work 'cause I think she is beautiful in a natural way and wanted him to see her...he's going today...we are odd like that tho...we also send lesbian porn to eachother and pics of hot naked chicks LOL actually, our courtship involved alot of that LOL.
