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A thought probably running through your mind:
"I want her back. We only live once and I feel like I should be the one with her. That guy doesn't know her like I do and I'm sure if she understands I made a mistake, we'd be better for each other."
There's probably a feeling of anxiety, which is why you made this thread. The truth is you want her to see all this and read all this and hopefully it would make her come to her senses. You feel like you can't focus on anything other than thinking about this. You have her on your mind day in, day out, and if you notice a hot chick walking by its probably only for a second.
You feel like there's nothing going on in the day because you want the progress between you and her to continue. It's like you were watching a movie that was sad, you were hoping for a happy ending, but halfway through the movie cuts off and you want to see the rest of it.
Am I correct about how you feel?
I went through the exact same thing bro. It sucks, so bad. Hopefully you can learn from my mistake, and capitalize from this situation without walking the dark path I had.
First: You neglected her. You have to accept that and understand how big of a mistake it was. When a woman is neglected it's very easy for her to cast an image over what she thinks of you for the worst. It's very hard to win a girl's heart back because girls are extremely emotional and once hurt, are hard to change back. Honestly, it wasn't an avoidable situation. You were going to feel the way you felt regardless of whether or not you stuck around. To be completely honest, it might've been a good thing you didn't contact her, because if you felt like you didn't like her as much or didn't want to be around her, you would've fucked things up a lot worse. You would've neglected her even though she was in contact with you and that would've made the bond between you weaker. The fact that you were cuddling and kissing when you went to visit her reveals that she still remembers you as you were when she was with you.
Second: She still wants you. Women know more so than men the value of something involving physical contact. A woman views sex as more than sex... It's making love, it's sharing something. A kiss is more than a kiss to women, it's a symbol of something. You kissed her, held her, she went out of her time to be with you and chances are her boyfriend, (if he exists, more on that later) doesn't know anything about it. You have to understand everything I've said because it's vital to trying to win her back. You have to understand the contrast of the above two things I've said. You neglected her but she still cares about you.
Now, onto a possible analyzation of what happened.
There's a good possibility this guy she spoke of doesn't exist. He might've been a tool to make you jealous or a way of avoiding you without directly saying it. This is a sign she wants you, because it's easier for a girl to say "I have a boyfriend" than "I don't want to be with you" when she still has feelings. She didn't tell you that, you have to keep note of it. She used this "boyfriend" story and even if it was true, you have the emotional factor favoring you.
Random tips: Women LOVE to be loved. This is true. Girls here can deny it all they want, but it's 100% true. That's why women love the whole soap opera, love movies and all that. Being the underdog is NEVER a bad thing with girls, because it will always work in your favor. You scored major points going to Toronto to see her, without her knowing it. Whatever she says, bad idea or not, it was a good thing in the direction of what you want out of this.
Now... Do NOT give up. Whatever you do don't give up. If she didn't have feelings for you, she wouldn't have fuckin' kissed you, held you and fell asleep with you. Girls don't do that with guys they don't care about anymore. You can win her back you just need to pull your balls out, hop on your horse, load up your revolvers and DO IT.
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And let us know how it works out.
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